
We recently returned from a family trip along the Northern California coast. We started in Fort Bragg, visited Mendocino, continued down to Sea Ranch, and had dinner in Point Reyes Station. In such places, the ocean keeps arriving in sound and air. We saw it from the road, heard it from our rooms, and felt it in the wind after we had turned inland.
This morning, our trip led me back to the beach vacations of my childhood. I grew up in Washington, D.C., where a trip to the ocean meant driving to Delaware or Maryland. We visited Lewes, Rehoboth Beach, and Ocean City. Decades later, I remember moments from those trips more vividly than I remember whole months at home.
One summer in the mid-1970s, my parents rented a cottage in Lewes, Delaware. I think we stayed for a month, though I remember only a handful of scenes from that long vacation. Across the street stood Jack’s Market, a small general store that supplied nearly everything we needed.
Jack’s Market was also where I landed my first job.
I was seven or eight years old. Somehow, I persuaded the proprietors to let me sweep the store. I remember being paid in candy, though they may have paid me in coins that I quickly exchanged for candy.
Why a child needed a job during his beach vacation remains unclear. My father believed deeply in work. Did he also believe that elementary school was a suitable time for me to enter the labor force, or was this solely my idea? I don’t remember that conversation.
At Rehoboth Beach, our friends Liz and Peter Carley opened their large beach house to a crowd of families. Of the five Carley children, I especially came to know Jeff, Jill, and Oliver. Sporty and hilarious, Jeff became a fast friend.
The MacKayes joined us, too. We walked or rode bicycles from the house to downtown Rehoboth and the beach, where the boardwalk held skee-ball machines and salt-water taffy stands, and where the waves were far more forceful than the gentler water I remembered at Lewes.
I also remember watching myself on television at the Carley house. In my brief career as a child actor, I appeared in commercials for Billy the Kid Action Wear and Kid Power Shoes. One of them aired on the Howdy Doody Show while we were at Rehoboth. Seeing my younger self on television was a major event, even if the Social Security Administration reports that my entire acting career earned me only about $300.
Later, we visited Ocean City, Maryland, where my step-uncle Harry owned a condominium. I was there with my father and stepmother in June 1989 as news arrived of the violent suppression of the demonstrations in Tiananmen Square. I listened to National Public Radio throughout the protests and their violent aftermath. I discussed the news with my father and stepmother. I remember the sand in the condo’s tile entryway, the floor-to-ceiling glass doors, and the cordless Levolor blinds.
Candy, bicycles, television commercials, rough surf, and Tiananmen Square belong to different orders of experience. In my memory, the beach holds them together.
Psychologists Jefferson Singer and Peter Salovey use the term “self-defining memories” for the recollections that help shape our sense of self. Pixar’s Inside Out later popularized the phrase “core memories.” Some of my beach memories occupy that territory.
A beach vacation removes a family from its usual surroundings. Memory held onto distinctive objects: the unfamiliar cottage, the walk into town, the boardwalk, the smell of saltwater taffy and ocean air, and the daily freedom to decide what to do next.
Those memories have gained importance as the world that produced them has receded. My parents took me eastward to the Atlantic. Decades later, I stood beside the Pacific with my own sons. I could not know what part of the morning they would remember.
Both my mother and father once owned homes in Washington, D.C. Neither parent is alive now, and both homes have been sold. My connection to the East Coast survives chiefly through people and memory. When I picture my family there, I often find us near the Atlantic.
I have lived in California since 1989 and have visited the Pacific many times. By the calendar, the Pacific has been my ocean for most of my adult life. Yet I feel that I have spent more time beside the Atlantic, for a single summer can occupy more space in memory than several adult years.
On our recent trip, I walked at dawn along Pudding Creek Beach in Fort Bragg with my son Jukie. A woman approached with a whippet and responsibly attached its leash. The dog looked eager to meet us, so I asked whether she wanted to say hello. The woman’s face opened with gratitude as she smiled and said, “Oh, thank you. She would love that.” She released the dog, who raced over to greet us.
Then Jukie and I continued to the bridge and watched the surf come in. While remembering the Atlantic beaches of my childhood, I was also videorecording the kind of morning I hope Jukie might remember years from now.
I found the words for that call in John Masefield. In the mid-1980s, I recorded myself reading John Masefield’s “Sea-Fever” into a cassette recorder. That private performance now seems like early practice for the radio work, poetry readings, teaching, and video recording that came later. The poem has been stuck in my head like a favorite song ever since.
Sea-Fever
John Masefield
I must go down to the seas again, to the lonely sea and the sky,
And all I ask is a tall ship and a star to steer her by,
And the wheel’s kick and the wind’s song and the white sail’s shaking,
And a grey mist on the sea’s face and a grey dawn breaking.
I must go down to the seas again, for the call of the running tide
Is a wild call and a clear call that may not be denied;
And all I ask is a windy day with the white clouds flying,
And the flung spray and the blown spume, and the sea-gulls crying.
I must go down to the seas again, to the vagrant gypsy life,
To the gull’s way and the whale’s way where the wind’s like a whetted knife;
And all I ask is a merry yarn from a laughing fellow-rover,
And quiet sleep and a sweet dream when the long trick’s over.
Masefield heard the sea calling him toward adventure. I hear another invitation in it now. The ocean calls me back toward the people with whom I first encountered it and toward the child who swept Jack’s Market for candy.
The tide removes our footprints almost as soon as we make them. Memory keeps the cottage, the bicycle ride, Howdy Doody on television, the conversation with my father, and the morning walk with my son. We leave the beach, but like the sand in our shoes, some part of it comes home with us.
Even though we will enjoy temperatures in the 90s today, it will still be the coolest day of the week, so I hope you will come join us at Sudwerk, home of the Pub Quiz with Dr. Andy. Join us on the patio if you can get a reservation or arrive early enough. As for the quiz, expect 31 questions on a variety of topics you should know something about, this week with questions on Greek mythology, a topic that many of us are returning to this summer.
In addition to topics raised above and below, expect questions tonight on the following: adaptations, anagrams, ankles, aquifers, ballads, boardwalks, boots, boyfriends, cameras, cartoons, chloroplasts, cinephiles, classrooms, databases, dealerships, diaries, documentaries, dolls, elections, enticements, existentialists, expeditions, farmlands, festivals, garrisons, geysers, glaciers, goddesses, harmonies, honors, horses, islands, laureates, lineups, missions, modernists, mountains, musicals, negotiations, novels, oceans, pinstripes, portraits, repetitions, rivalries, rivers, rookies, sedans, sermons, sitcoms, spellings, streaks, suitors, Swedes, taxonomies, temptations, tendons, thrillers, trades, wanderers, workouts, wrappers. current events, and Shakespeare.
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Three questions from last week:
- Fred Astaire. Which Marvel cinematic universe actor has been cast as the lead in a new Fred Astaire biopic and plans to do all the dancing himself?
- Town Plazas. The largest town plaza in California is found about 54 miles from Davis. Name the town.
- Pop Culture – Music. What American pop and R&B group had hits with “There Goes My Baby” (1959), “Save the Last Dance for Me” (1960), and “Under the Boardwalk” (1964)?










